Like the rest of us, Taylor Swift is absolutely heartbroken now that she has broken up with Calvin Harris, HollywoodLife.com has EXCLUSIVELY learned. She wishes ‘he’d change his mind’ and take her back. Aww — this is such a tragedy.

Someone grab Taylor Swift a box of Kleenex and a pint of ice cream because she’s “devastated” over her breakup with Calvin Harris. In fact, she feels like she’s living a nightmare and she just wants the DJ to “change his mind” and take her back.

“She is devastated over it all and really wishes he would change his mind,” a source tells HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY.

There’s still hope for that to happen, but in the meantime, what we do know is that “there was no drama. Things just don’t work out sometimes,” an insider told PEOPLE. Plus, a source confirmed to HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY that “this is accurate” — they did part ways.

And what we’ve learned about their breakup is that Calvin broke things off because he felt pressure to get married to her. “Taylor was starting to pressure Calvin into walking down the aisle and he just felt that he wasn’t ready yet,” a source told HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY, following their split.

“He’s still, and always will be, career-focused and doesn’t want to settle down just yet,” the source continued. “He envisaged getting married at 35-plus, and wasn’t comfortable talking about getting hitched after just a little over a year of dating.”

We still can’t believe this happened. We really thought Taylor and Calvin would go the distance. Maybe one day they’ll get back together — at least we can hope for that.

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